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One last thing... 
8th-Jun-2005 08:50 am
-out of focus-
I spent a lot of last night talking to ybunny about this, so I kind of want to remember it.

It would be tons easier for me to live with myself, if, once someone has treated me less well than they know they should...or even badly, I could write that person off. It would make me a person with hugely lower stress levels. I want the best for everyone I know, truly. Worry that someone might be upset with me, even when they have zero right to be is one of the things I go to almost any length to avoid.

I've sat here and stared at the screen for the last ten minutes or so...I'm guessing I'm not going to be able to say this any better.
8th-Jun-2005 01:26 pm (UTC)

8th-Jun-2005 02:02 pm (UTC)
You seem to sometimes see people as upset with you when they aren't. So between people actually being upset and you seeing them as upset when they are not, you probably stress A LOT more than you should.

You are extremely sensitive and caring. It is part of what makes you a wonderful person. But that sensitivity and caring can bite you in the ass when you see someone as upset with you when they are not.

I never want people to be upset with me either. Sometimes people I don't even like get upset with me and it kills me. I too can't stand it when they have no right to be upset with me and yet seemingly are. I want to fix it and sometimes it isn't ours to fix.
9th-Jun-2005 12:11 am (UTC)
Me, too. *hugs some of the stress away*
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