I spent a lot of last night talking to ybunny
about this, so I kind of want to remember it.
It would be tons easier for me to live with myself, if, once someone has treated me less well than they know they should...or even badly, I could write that person off. It would make me a person with hugely lower stress levels. I want the best for everyone I know, truly. Worry that someone might be upset with me, even when they have zero right to be
is one of the things I go to almost any length to avoid.
I've sat here and stared at the screen for the last ten minutes or so...I'm guessing I'm not going to be able to say this any better.